Horrid Bullys - Lose Sink Ships

Ahh I could shout right now, hell I could even scream but no, instead I am letting lose with what I need to get out on this post. I am 23 year's old, I am an adult, I am also a mother. To me, with those terms adult and mother, they make me feel grown up, in my eyes, I have always been more mature then others my age, that's mainly due to the fact that I become a mother at such a young age. I know other adults my age, and none could be so heartless and disgusting as to what I am about to talk about in this post.
 
I am now an adult, adults should be mature, sensible, careful, considerate, respectful, the list goes on. I've known for a while that not all adult's are mature, sensible people, I discover on a weekly basis, so many adults are so poorly educated, they have to insult others. I don't know the ins and outs of every situation, I honestly don't want too, I thought I left this rubbish in the playground when I was in year 6 aged 10.
 
I've not done many personal post for a while, this is because I have had so much to deal with. My beautiful, clever and amazing boy started 'big' school, the juniors to be precise. I have been working hard on a Halloween feature to bring you lot, I have been de-cluttering the house, I wouldn't say de-cluttering, more sorting through the old and unusable. I have been ill, a chest infection and asthma is not a good mix for the lungs and loads of other things that has refrained me from writing a personal post.
 
About a month ago, I logged onto my dashboard as I usually do on a daily basis, and was shocked to find a disgusting and vile comment left by an anonymous commenter which was directed at my 7 year old son. A small human being who is so innocent in the big horrid world we live in. I don't know who you are, because you are a COWARD, one you feel the need to insult and racially insult a small child, and two you hid behind anon.
 
I read your disgusting horrid word's and was shocked, who brought you up you disgusting vile creature? What kind of an animal are you to say such things? I don't like being judgemental but your parent's clearly dragged you up with no proper education. I imagine you didn't get the good stuff in life, or your a parent yourself, who is a total waste of space, who can't give your children a good life. Whatever scumbag shit on my shoe creature you are, just know I don't hate people like you, I feel sorry for you.

The racist comments wasn't enough for you though was they? You wanted to carry on, you wanted to make fun of the disabilities my son has, you went on to call him cross eyed, taking the mick. For your information, not that I should have to tell your rubbish educated brain, my son does not have a cross eye, he has a squint, he also has Astigmatisms in both of his eyes.

My boy, who was 7 weeks premature, who has had 3 operations as it is, does not need your horrid disgusting comments. My son will never find out about your pathetic and useless comments because not a single word of the abuse you left was true. You are just a big adult bully, hiding behind a screen, and not picking on people your own age, instead a small innocent child!
 
I bet even if your loved and close ones found out about the disgusting comments you left me over a period of time they wouldn't be shocked. I mean, you all must be the complete biggest waste of this earth, have you been hurt? Abandoned? Never been shown love? I am being horrible now aren't I? Well NO I'm not actually I am just sticking up for the small innocent child you left comments for.
 
My beautiful amazing and clever son has more respect, manners, morals, dignity and value's than you would ever have, and he is just 7 years old. My son has been brought up strong, by a strong minded mother who has had shit throughout her life and who certainly won't take rubbish off the likes of you, scum of the earth.
 
This post was not going to happen, but after some nasty going on's in the parent blogging community recently, this post had to be written. In all walks of lives, dating back to the Adam and Eve era, woman have fought, argued and been two faced, back stabbing bitches. I have a selective group of bloggers I talk too on a regular basis, and we are disgusted by recent going on's in the community.
 
Call yourselves adults? Well you better sign up to adult school then my darlings because seriously there is so much shit going on in the world, why do you need to contribute to the bad!? Why do you want to make enemies and be hated? So many bloggers have sadly lost respect for a group of bloggers recently, I am sad to say I am one of those.
 
When I come onto the blogging scene, I was delighted with the warm welcoming, the gin and cake offerings, the non stop advice and witty harmless jokes. Just like any other bunch of woman thrown together though, lose lips sink ships. For that I think its best I sail my own adventure, why would I wish to stay upon a cruise ship that has so many loose mouths it will sink? Again lose lips sink ships.
 
I am sorry to my loyal readers and visitors for the swear words contained in this post. This is my little piece of space in the big wide world, on the internet, a place for me to vent and the reason why I started blogging, to write and get the feelings out. It was way too long for a Facebook status and don't even get me started with the Twitter cap!
 
Now, back to happy blogging yes! I have 3 brand spanking new competitions for you lovely lot to go and enter! GO GO GO!!!
 
Until next time
x

32 comments

  1. What a brilliant post Jada and I am sorry someone felt like they had the right to put anything like that on your blog but good for you for speaking out x the fact they didn't put their name speaks volumes x

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    1. Thank you Natalie, please don't be sorry, for I know my beautiful son will never find out about the vile evilness mentioned in these comments. Exactly like you said they had to hide behind anon x

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  2. Just read your post Jade,I'm utterly shocked that someone can be so nasty about a gorgeous little boy,My son is also 7 and i would have reacted in the same manor if someone spoke about him in the same way.There is some vial people in this world who get kicks out of been nasty to others its so sickening to think they class that as fun. Don't let them get you down and carry on with all the good work you do on this fab blog.
    Love to you both x

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    1. Thank you Sarah, I wasn't going to write about it, but due to recent events in the blogging world, the bullying and insults, I wanted people to know. Thank you Sarah, I will keep my chin up thank you x

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  3. so sorry to hear that! Hope that they will see this and reflect what they have done.

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    1. Thank you hunny, hopefully they will do just that x

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  4. The fact you have had to go through this makes me so angry and sad! You are BOTH beautiful, and you know I love you so much.Chin up and carry on, you can do this :) x

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    1. Thank you Chelsea, for always being there and everything else! Love you too and I will keep my chin up x

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  5. Am so sad you had to read something like that - some people just lead very sad lives that they have to cause distress and pain to others to make themselves feel better. Sending you a big hug and your beautiful boy too xoxo

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    1. Thank you for leaving a comment hun, it made me sad at first, but then I thought well no, actually there is no truth behind the disgusting comments, so they are just being evil bullies who ever the person is. Thank you so much hunny x

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  6. fact is they will see this and be smugly satisfied as that's what the anon brigade are all about.... reaction they don't think like you . I or other sensible people more's the pity

    My Middle daughter has astigmatisms in both eyes and my youngest has one in her right eye too, personally i don't see it as an issue and it's great the professionals catch these things earlier these days x

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    1. Hello Linda, thank you for leaving a comment, I did think about this when I wrote this post but I know there is no truth behind the horrid comments left so I can hold my head up high and rise above them knowing they are scum in this earth!

      I too agree about the medical professional's, I just hope it doesn't lead to a fourth operation for Spud! x

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    2. Fingers crossed for the future hopefully no more op's, your little Guy is a wee cracker and a credit to you hun x Wishing you and him all the very best health i know how tough it can be on mummy too, anyone who has anything negative to say with regards to your little guy clearly has no moral compass x

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    3. Thank you Linda, he has other problems too, so he's facing another 2 ops (one on his eyes, one on his belly) I just hope if he does need them, they are the last too. Thank you again hun x

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  7. you are indeed an inspirational person, well done you x

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  8. I am shocked to the core that anybody would stoop so low as to insult a beautiful, innocent little boy and not even have the courage to identify themselves. I don't know you and have only recently started following your blog but you seem to be an awesome mummy and your little boy is beautiful. I'm sure karma will deal with the horrible individual who wrote such cruel things. Keep doing the wonderful job you are doing xxx

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    1. Hello hun thank you for leaving a comment, sadly I am not surprised any more with the way the world is and some of the horrid people in it. I have not come across any adult who would ever insult a child though. Thank you for reading my blog and I hope to interact with you in the future! Thank you hun I sure will x

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  9. I can't believe that someone would do that. Disgusting.. Good on you for telling them where to go!

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    1. Thank you Esther, its just sad that the person is clearly an adult! x

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  10. What a despicable human being, if they can be called that! I have a 7 year old daughter who too was premature and is almost blind in one eye without glasses and this post has made me so angry for you. That you even had to write it is horrendous! But good for you for letting them know you won't stand for it!

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    1. Hello hun thank you for leaving a comment, I was most angry at the disability insults and racist insults, he is just a innocent child, a child who did not asked to be born into this world. No one has any right in the world to insult such a innocent small person, but I guess this is what the cowards do, they have no life and are clearly jealous! Thank you x

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  11. I cant believe some people sink so low.. pathetic, immature little nobodies that are obviously very jealous.. well done for such a great post and standing up to the nasty little bully

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    1. Me either Debbie, I know the world is full of sadness but to pick on a child!? Thank you very much x

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  12. Oh my god! I can't believe how pathetic some people can be, actually taking the time to leave you an insulting comment about your gorgeous boy really is disgusting! They must lead a pretty sad and lonely life if they've got nothing better to do than that, great post hun :) xx

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    1. Hello Emma, thank you for your lovely comments and he is just that, gorgeous, and I agree, they must be so sad, to pick on such a small innocent person x

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  13. It is inexcusable to bully anyone, let alone a child. It's a sad fact that people can hide behind anonymity to pick on others across the internet. It's totally pathetic. Don't let the trolls bring you down Jade xxx

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    1. Hello Wendy, thank you for reading and leaving a comment hun, the thing that does shock me the most is the person/persons that have left the horrible comments are adults, leaving disgusting, racist and insulting comments, towards a small child, sad low life scum they are! xx

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  14. Hi we are just in the middle of emailing eachother on a work basis and I said I recognised you and your blog and couldn't work out whether we had worked together before. Well, I recognised your blog because I remembered seeing photos of your lovely young boy and thought to myself what a beautiful boy he is. So that proves that those comments held no truth and were clearly from a Troll. Just ignore them. They want this sort of response from you because they are sick bas%#$ds! Just ignore those type of comments they mean nothing! x
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    1. Hello Jennifer, thank you for reading my post and leaving a comment, thank you for your kind comments on Spud being beautiful. Thank you again x

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  15. I can't believe how low people will go! Thats outrageous! It's damn right disgusting and un called for! The internet is full of creeps like this and unfortunately they are everywhere we go :(
    xx

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    1. Hello Kerry, I know its mental to think how someone who's meant to be an adult, can find the guts to bully such a small innocent child! x

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