Oh, to live a life of luxury. Many of us dream about it, but few of us can afford it. After rent, bills and food, most of us parents just want to spend the rest of our money on our kids. There is, of course, nothing better than seeing the smile on their face when you tell them they're going for a day out, or simply that you've bought them a gift.

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In the madness of day to day life we can often end up forgetting about the need to care for ourselves too. Stress plays a major part in the lives of many modern women, and you may be personally feeling the strain also, but, there are little things you can add to your daily, weekly or monthly routine that can help you feel that little bit more grounded. Remember that self-care is just as important as caring for others - so invest a little more in yourself.

Massage
You probably hear about people going for professional massages when they have a physical condition or a sports injury, but having a massage can be one of the best ways to relieve stress and feel a little more luxurious - even if it's just for half an hour! Sure, your partner has probably rubbed your shoulders for five minutes while he's watching the football, but paying for a session with a masseuse can be an indulgence that pays for itself. You will come out of your session feeling renewed and rejuvenated - it's one of the best ways to treat yourself and take some time out.

An evening to yourself
We all love being surrounded by our families at home - so much so that if they go away, we sometimes don't quite know what to do with ourselves! The first few times that your child goes to stay somewhere else overnight can be a bit traumatic, but once you've become more at ease with it, why not use the opportunity of a night alone to pamper yourself? It doesn't have to be anything drastic. Even little things such as curling up in some luxury bed linen and lighting a candle in your bedroom can help bring about a relaxing atmosphere. Enjoy the feeling of being able to read a book without getting disturbed or being able to enjoy a glass of wine on a school night. You'll miss the attention of your little one, but once they are back you'll miss the peace just as much!

Retail therapy
Many people see shopping as a form of treating themselves, and it definitely can be, but a sure fire way to feel more luxurious is to invest in a really great buy. A lot of us make the mistake of spending a lot of money on poor quality clothing, bags and shoes. Ironically, this can often end up costing a lot of money, even if the items themselves were all relatively cheap. By investing in a more expensive, but better quality piece, you will truly feel like you've treated you won't worry afterwards whether you wasted money or not.

Jada x
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